The Lord has repeatedly directed my attention to Psalm 44:3 lately: "It was not by their sword that they won the land, nor did their arm bring them victory; it was your right hand, your arm, and the light of your face, for you loved them." (NIV) When I pondered why He was leading me to this passage so frequently, I realized it was because the Father wants me to "be like Jesus." Let me explain...
Most followers of Jesus quickly learn that our destiny is to become more and more like Jesus. Romans 8:29 says becoming like Him is our God-determined destiny; see also Matthew 10:25, 1 Corinthians 11:1, Philippians 2:5 ff., 2 Corinthians 3:18, etc.
But before we go further, I remind you that any transformation in our lives happens because of God’s work in us and our trusting response to Him, not our own, independent, self-effort! We don’t become like Jesus by trying to apply His teachings or by trying to copy His example, rather we allow Him by His Spirit to live His life in and through us. As we surrender to His guidance, and trust in His power, we are changed. It is a simple, childlike way to live that replaces independent human effort with childlike trust, dependence, and obedience in our relationship with Jesus.
So, having touched on “the how,” what does it mean to “become like Jesus?” Most Christians answer that question by suggesting that we are supposed to become like Jesus in terms of His character (loving, compassionate, kind, etc. Galatians 5:22-23 comes to mind), and that's certainly true. But I believe that there are many other ways in which we are destined to become like Jesus. A few that stand out are "doing what Jesus did" (supernatural signs and wonders, see John 14:12), living in close community like Jesus did ("All men will know that you are my disciples by your healthy relationships--John 13:34-35), discipling like Jesus did (by example, demonstration, leading to discovery, and sometimes by words), living in faith like Jesus did, and the list could go on.
But there's one way we are to be like Jesus that's more important than all others and is the foundation for everything else. Can you guess what it is? It is to have the same intimate, love-filled relationship with Father God that Jesus did. If we are to become like Jesus and "do what Jesus did," we must first learn how to live in the Father's love like Jesus did. In fact, this is the core of “the how” that I talked about above—you cannot become like Jesus apart from learning to live in the Father's love like Jesus did.
We know that Jesus did nothing apart from the Father and that He lived a life of total obedience and dependence upon the Father (see John 5:17-30), but do we really understand why and how He lived such a submitted, obedient life? It was because of the intimacy He enjoyed with His Abba. From the time Jesus was a little child He knew God as His Abba, and what He experienced most of all was Abba's love for Him.
The love relationship between Jesus and His Father was deep and passionate beyond our comprehension, and I am convinced that Jesus' perfect love for His Father was, more than anything else, what moved Him to perfect obedience. Jesus' love was in direct response to His Father's love for, and delight in Him. It is no accident that the Father said, "You are my Son; I love you and I delight in You," before Jesus had done any ministry! (Matthew 3:17, Mark 1:11, Luke 3:22). Ponder that for a while and you will understand why it's so important for you to have the same relationship with Abba that Jesus did! Can you hear God affirming you apart from what you do?
In addition to John 5, we see Jesus' intimate relationship with His Abba in all the Gospels. Two places that especially capture my attention are Mark 1:35-39 and Luke 5:15-16. Both of these passages describe Jesus in the midst of extremely successful ministry. In the first passage, Jesus leaves very successful ministry behind after spending time with the Father (how many of us could leave "success" behind like that?). In the second passage, in the midst of the crowds and success it says of Jesus, (my literal translation): "But Jesus was withdrawing to lonely places and praying." Most translations don't catch the meaning here, rendering this into something like "But He would often withdraw" but that's not what it says. It says that in the midst of crowds all around Him, Jesus was (always/continually) withdrawing and praying. Think about this a little bit and you will catch the implication: Jesus was constantly doing whatever it took to stay in close relationship with His Father. Can we do less?
I believe that Jesus lived His life looking at the Father's face! He saw what the Father was doing (John 5:19), not because He was looking for what to do next but because He loved His Father and couldn't help but gaze at Him! And it was His overwhelming love for His Father that motivated everything He did and enabled Him to trust His Father completely. And in my opinion, there is no other way to become like Jesus than to enter into the same kind of intimate love relationship with Abba.
Too idealistic, you say? Perhaps you should read what David wrote in Psalm 27:4 (look it up). Perhaps you should consider a proper translation of 2 Corinthians 3:18. The NRSV gets in right: "And all of us, with unveiled faces, seeing the glory of the Lord as though reflected in a mirror, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another; for this comes from the Lord, the Spirit." The background of this passage is Moses' request to see the glory of the Lord in Exodus 33-34. Both David and Moses were consumed with a love for God that drew them to a place of simply wanting to gaze upon His beauty (and His beauty includes His love for us/you).
Want to be like Jesus? You can't! Not unless you first enter wholeheartedly into the Father's love. Romans 5:5 says that the Holy Spirit pours Abba's love into our hearts in an experiential way. My prayer is that as you read this, He will do that very thing for you in such as way that you can see "the light of His face" (His smile!).
Tom, one of Abba's children